A woman - The HELPER.

A female is created to be a helper, In the beginning a woman was designed and equipped by God, to help a male fulfill the assignment that God give him. 

A woman is not the one who comes to destroy a man's vision. You don't wanna marry a man and then dictates how he's supposed to live. A helper is not the one who runs the show. 

A wise woman helps her husband achieve his visions, she studies her husband and asks him questions rather than criticize and irritate him. She tries to find out what his dream, vision and desire is and how she can HELP him achieve it. 

The Holy Spirit is called the same thing a woman is called; our helper, companion and friend. The Holy Spirit doesn't take over your life, He always comes to help you achieve what you were brought into this world to. If you have no plan or vision, He has nothing to help you do. 

So men, before bringing a woman into your life, make sure you have a plan and vision for your life. A woman comes well equipped and ready to help, she's got intuition, wisdom, insight, intelligence, incubation and sensitivity, but if you have nothing to do then she can't help you achieve anything 

Women, you need to submit to your husband's vision. Don't come into his life with your vision and try to turn him to ignore his vision and pursue yours. 

"Di" means 2 or double; "Di"vision means 2 visions in the same place. When you don't submit to your man's vision you create division, which leads to DIVORCE. 

So don't come with your bank account and tell your husband, I am gonna have my own bank account. The family is like a business and you put all the resources together. And then if you both decide as a family to divide the account, you do it as a family. Don't come there with your own private, secret, vision. You are there to help not to take over!! 

Counselor Kwesi 🤵🏾